Stress

ADHD AND BURNOUT: WHY YOU'RE STUCK IN THE BOOM-AND-BUST CYCLE

ADHD AND BURNOUT: WHY YOU'RE STUCK IN THE BOOM-AND-BUST CYCLE

If you’re someone who’s driven, hardworking, and deeply invested in doing well — at work, in your relationships, in life — it can be incredibly frustrating to find yourself burned out or stuck.

You might be moving at full speed for days or weeks at a time, crossing things off your list, running on adrenaline, doing more than most people can keep up with — and then suddenly, you hit a wall. Your energy crashes. You can’t concentrate. You feel tired, unmotivated, and emotionally overwhelmed.

This experience is more common than you might think, especially among high-achieving professionals and individuals with ADHD. It’s known as the boom-and-bust cycle — and if this sounds familiar, you’re not alone.

FEEL BETTER NOW: THE MINDSET SKILL THAT WILL INSTANTLY SHIFT HOW YOU FEEL

FEEL BETTER NOW: THE MINDSET SKILL THAT WILL INSTANTLY SHIFT HOW YOU FEEL

I have learned many “mindset hacks” in my career as a psychologist. Most are little shifts that all add up after months or years of practice. Today, I want to share with you one strategy in particular that can make a HUGE difference in how you feel AS SOON as you apply it. 

WHAT DO YOU MEAN?

WHAT DO YOU MEAN?

The brain likes things in neat categories. It likes to keep things simple. It likes to know and to predict and to be right. It doesn’t like not knowing, being uncertain, out of control, or wrong. Sounds obvious, right? But actually, we don’t realize how many instances in our daily lives are impacted by the brain’s desire for certainty. So many decisions are made because of the meaning our brain assumes or the category it puts something in just so we could feel more at ease.

REASONS A THERAPIST CAN’T WORK WITH YOU, EVEN WHEN IT’S A GOOD FIT

REASONS A THERAPIST CAN’T WORK WITH YOU, EVEN WHEN IT’S A GOOD FIT

Everything else being equal, having met all fit categories… a therapist may still not be able to work with you. I know, it sucks, but it’s true. It can get especially tricky around ethics. There are some hard lines that cannot be crossed, and others that are more challenging to navigate.